Simply Me

Cinta tak butuh tali. Iya, tak butuh tali untuk mengikat 2 hati. Lepas dari rutinitas, lepas dari aturan atas nama protokoler cinta

Cinta itu bebas, tulus, tak munafik. Mau ini… lakukan ini.. Mau itu… lakukan itu.. yang kelak akan teruji oleh hati yang terpaut sendiri, bukan karena ikatan rutinitas & tanggung jawab.

Ketulusan, kemurnian hati dalam kebebasan yang menguji cinta. Jika dalam kebebasan itu hati masih terikat di satu asa, jika pikiran termonopoli hanya untuk bertemu dia di ujung mimpi, jika waktu terasa tak berujung saat dia hadir, jika rutinitas menggila sanggup terhenti saat sekelebat bayangannya melintas, jika diri mampu terlihat bodoh tanpa merasa malu, jika diri mendapati si Aku saat bersamanya.

Tanpa tali yang bernama rutinitas, tanggung jawab, aturan, norma, idealisme sosial.. Cinta hadir, tumbuh, mampu bertahan, dan saling ketergantungan.. seperti candu. Itu adalah cinta sejati

Inspired by.. Supernova

You cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them…

It’s not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts…

No matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides…
Two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different…

Heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences….
Following the path of least resistance is what makes both men and rivers crooked…

Sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry
but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel…
The value of a man resides in what he gives and not in what he is capable receiving….

Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to
doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have…
Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get – only with what you are expecting to give …

There are many ways of falling and staying in love…
No matter the consequences,
those who are honest with themselves get farther in life…

Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny….

Do not quench your inspiration and your imagination; do not become the slave of your model. ….
You cannot depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus….

Your life can be changed in a matter of hours
by people who don’t even know you…

You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it….

“Life is a sum of all your choices”

People are break down into two groups. When they experience something lucky, group no. 1 sees more than just a lucky, more than a coincidence, they sees as a sign, as a miracle. Evidence, that there is someone up there watching out for them. And that feels them a hope.

Group no. 2 looking at things in a very suspicious way, that the situation is 50:50, could be bad could be good. And deep down they feel that whatever happen they’re on their own, and that fulls them with fear.

So now ask your self, what kind of person are you?

The kind that sees sign, sees miracle.. OR do you believe that people just get lucky.. OR look the question this way.. "Is it possible that there are no coincidence..?"

from "the signs"

Saat aku MENYUKAI seorang TEMAN…
Ingatkanlah aku bahwa akan ada sebuah
AKHIR…
Sehingga aku tetap bersama YANG TAK
PERNAH BERAKHIR…

Tuhan Yesus…
Ketika aku MERINDUKAN seorang KEKASIH…
RINDUkanlah aku kepada dia yang RINDU Cinta
SEJATI-MU…
Agar keRINDUanku terhadap-MU semakin
BERTAMBAH…

Tuhan Yesus…
Jika aku hendak MENCINTAI seseorang…
TEMUKANlah aku dengan orang yang
menCINTAI-MU…
Agar bertambah KUAT CINTAku pada-MU…

Tuhan Yesus…
Ketika aku sedang JATUH CINTA…
JAGAlah CINTA itu…
Agar tidak meLEBIHi cintaku PADA-MU…

Tuhan Yesus…
Ketika aku berucap AKU JUGA CINTA
PADAMU…
Biarlah kukatakan kepada yang HATInya
TERPAUT PADAMU…
Agar aku TAK JATUH dalam CINTA yang bukan
KARENA-MU…

Tuhan Yesus…
Ketika aku berikrar AKU AKAN SETIA sampai

maut memisahkan…
Biarlah kuNYATAkan kepada dia yang
MENGGENAPKAN VisiMu atas hidupku…

MENCINTAI seseorang BUKANLAH APA-APA…
DICINTAI seseorang adalah SESUATU…
DICINTAI oleh orang yang KAU CINTAI sangatlah
BERARTI…

tapi lebih dari itu ingatlah…
DICINTAI oleh SANG PENCINTA adalah
SEGALANYA…

Miliki kerinduan untuk MENCINTAI YESUS lebih dari
SEGALA yang ada padamu…
TETAP SETIA sampai pada akhirnya…

** AKU…untuk…KAMU **

We all will experience loss sometime, whether it’s a job, a position or a relationship, and how we handle it will be a good test of whether we really believe God has a purpose for us or not.

If He does, then these losses are not really losses in His book.

They are opportunities to learn what we couldn’t learn any other way, or in some cases, time shows us that through losing, He was actually protecting us from something worse that we didn’t see coming.

Let it go for 2006…
By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.  And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another  person into staying with you,   loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. 

When people can walk away from you let them walk.  Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left .  The bible said  that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.  And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over . And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.  You’ve got to know when it’s dead.  You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you 
something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me.  And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay. 

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need  to……

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ……

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth….. 

LET IT GO!!! 

If someone has angered you .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and  revenge……

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction……

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your  needs or talents .

LET IT GO!!! 

If you have a bad attitude …….

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better……

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship…….

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves……

LET IT GO!!!

If you’re feeling depressed and stressed .

LET IT GO!!! 

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself  and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"  then you need to……

LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.  GOD is doing a new thing for 2006!!! 

LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left.. think about it, and then .

LET IT GO!!! 

"The Battle is the Lord’s!"

Yap.. Love is unmanageable! See.. one time you thought you could prepare everythin’ so perfectly, it’s the time you let your self manipulate the inside of you. Common, no body is born with everything so damn perfect. It’s always some silly things shows up that even you couldn’t fix it. Relax.. don’t held back.. just go with it, cause the silliest thing in you might turn to be the best part hahaha.. So, just take a deep breath.. go with the flow.. and let the love do the right thing for you!

Goodluck..

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